Imihigo irindwi

Imihigo irindwi:
Gufungura Itumanaho

Gushyikirana kumugaragaro bisa nkibikomeye kandi birasa nkaho bitabaho, ariko birashobora kuba ibintu bitangaje bitangaje byera. Abantu benshi barashobora kuba bamenyereye uburyo abanyepolitike n'abamamaza bazakoresha euphemisme kugirango ikintu cyumvikane neza, cyangwa gito, gishimishije kuruta uko gishobora kuba. Turamutse tuvuze kubyerekeye gukingira abarwayi no gukurikiza ubuvuzi bworoheje twagirana ikiganiro gitandukanye nuko navuze Obamacare? Wari uzi ko ibigo bikorerwamo ibya farumasi biha abashakashatsi kuyobora amatsinda yibanze kumazina yibiyobyabwenge byabo? Skyrizi biroroshye cyane kuvuga, kwibuka, no kumva wifuza kurusha Risankizumab. Imwe mungero nkunda zubu bwoko bwibikorwa ni kwamamaza amazina. Wari uzi ko izina Ralph Lauren yahawe ari Ralph Rueben Lifshitz? Avuga ku mpinduka n'impamvu yakoresheje Lauren hano , ariko ndatekereza ko ushobora gushobora gukeka impamvu umuntu ugerageza kugurisha imirongo yimyenda yo murwego rwohejuru yahitamo moniker idashishikaje. Igitekerezo cyanjye hano nuko mugihe tugenzuye dushobora kuba muri rusange tutakinguye cyane nitumanaho ryacu kuruta uko twabitekereza.

Twizere ko, bike kuri Ralph Lauren biguha urwenya. Siba hamwe no gutererana cyangwa komeza usome uburyo itumanaho rifunguye ryerekana nkubwitange muri Ahera.

Birashobora kutoroha cyane kuvugana neza, cyane cyane niba twumva ko ubutumwa butakiriwe neza cyangwa ko bizatuma ibintu bitagenda neza. Ni kangahe dushobora kubwira uwo ukunda ko dukunda imyambarire yabo mugihe mubyukuri tutabikora? Ni kangahe tubwira inshuti cyangwa mugenzi wawe ko bafite ikintu mumenyo yabo? Niba bigoye muri ibi bihe, ni bangahe bigoye noneho kuba umutware w'itegeko rishya, impinduka mubintu abantu bakunda, cyangwa mugukemura ibibazo byimikorere muri raporo itaziguye?

Turashobora kutoroherwa no gutumanaho kumugaragaro kuburyo abantu bavugana muburyo butaziguye bashobora kwitwa ko bigoye, umutware, ubutware, nibindi.

Ubuturo bwera busobanura iki mu itumanaho rifunguye?

Ibipimo byera byera byerekana ko kubijyanye no gutumanaho kumugaragaro, “Abanyamuryango bemeye kumenya uburyo bavugana. Abaturage bemeye kuvuga kubibazo bireba abaturage bose, nubwo byaba bigoye gute, kandi kubikora muburyo butaziguye kandi bweruye. Abayobozi bitoza gukorera mu mucyo mubyemezo cyangwa ibibazo bireba buri wese. Abaturage bose bafite amakuru bakeneye kugira ngo batsinde. ”

Reka twongere dusome.

Abanyamuryango bemeye kumenya uburyo bashyikirana. Abaturage bemeye kuvuga kubibazo bireba abaturage bose, nubwo byaba bigoye gute , kandi kubikora muburyo butaziguye kandi bweruye . Abayobozi bitoza gukorera mu mucyo mubyemezo cyangwa ibibazo bireba buri wese . Abaturage bose bafite amakuru bakeneye kugirango batsinde .

Itumanaho riza inshuro nyinshi nkikibazo cya Wright Centre, mvugishije ukuri, hafi yandi mashyirahamwe yose yo kwisi. Ibi biterwa no kubura abantu kumpande zose zitumanaho ukoresheje kwigisha-inyuma kugirango buri wese afite amakuru akeneye kugirango atsinde. Biterwa kandi nigice cyimiterere yabantu ishobora kugera muburyo bwo gutumanaho kumugaragaro - static ishobora kubaho mubayobozi nkuko ibaho nahandi hose mumuryango.

Iyo static irashobora, kandi mubisanzwe irahari, ibaho ahantu hose ifite abantu. Duterana umunsi wose. Twisanga tugomba gufata ibyemezo kandi rimwe na rimwe bisa nkibidashoboka. Rimwe na rimwe, aya mahitamo yumva adafite amahitamo, ariko mubyukuri, turabikora rwose, ni amahitamo gusa. (Ndetse iherezo ryiza rya firime ya Disney akenshi ritangirana nigihombo kibabaje).

Ingero zimwe zamahitamo atoroshye zirimo kwemera kuguma mubuvuzi mugihe cyicyorezo na nyuma yicyorezo, guhitamo kuguma mumwanya ushobora gutuma twumva tutamerewe neza (icyitonderwa: nanone bireba yoga), no guhitamo kutavuga mugihe ikintu gikeneye kuba yandikiwe. Kureka akazi no kuvuga birashobora kutoroha cyane, ariko kandi no gukora ahantu runaka cyangwa mumwanya utari twe, cyangwa kubabazwa numuco wo gukomeza kwishora mubikorwa tutemeranya rwose. Ibi rimwe na rimwe birababaje cyane ubwabyo birashobora kuba imbarutso, bikadutera gukora inyabutatu ya reenactment kuko twumva tumeze nkuwahohotewe, ibyo nabyo bikatuganisha ku byoroshye, nubwo atari ngombwa byanze bikunze, abatoteza.

Hano hari impera ebyiri kuri buri tumanaho: uwayohereje nuwakira. Muri ubu buryo, itumanaho rifunguye ryuzuyemo ubwenge bwamarangamutima . Twaba twohereza ubutumwa cyangwa kubakira, kumenya imbarutso yacu (amagambo, interuro, ibibazo, abantu, amajwi y'ijwi, impumuro, bishobora kuba byose) ni ngombwa kugirango tugaragaze muri iryo tumanaho ryiteguye kwishora mu mwuga kandi ufite impamvu, cyangwa , muburyo, kumenya ko tudashobora kwigaragaza neza mumwanya runaka. Ubwenge bw'amarangamutima nabwo buradufasha kumva igihe tugomba, kandi tutagomba, gufata ibyemezo bikomeye.

Mu byumweru kuva nitabira amahugurwa ahera, sinshobora no kukubwira inshuro numvise ndakaye, ndakaye, ndumiwe, kandi naniwe. Ndi umuntu, birashoboka. Kandi ndashaka ko abantu bagiye munama zimwe na zimwe bari guhamya ko ntahora nigaragaza nkanjye ubwanjye kuko, yewe - ntabwo bisa nkaho dushobora kuzimya amarangamutima (hamwe namwe muri mwe) utekereza ko ushobora, tekereza nanone!). Ntamuntu wavuze ko ibi bintu byoroshye. Mubyukuri, umuntu (* ahem *) yagiye avuga cyane cyane ko bitaba.

Nta na kimwe muri ibyo biganiro byingenzi byerekeranye n'imikorere, kubazwa, gushyira imbere, gukosora amakosa, no gukosora inzira rwose birashimishije. Ariko birakenewe niba twizeye kuzatera imbere mubyo dukora. Ntamuntu mubiganiro nkibi ufite umupira rwose; ubu bwoko bwibiganiro burashobora rwose gukurura. Kubwirwa ko twakoze ikintu kitari cyo, ko ikintu kitameze neza nkuko byakagombye kuba bitameze neza kandi birashobora kutugarura mugihe nahantu twashinjwaga akarengane cyangwa ubundi tutari dufite umutekano. Kuva aho, tunyerera mu kwisubiraho, kandi birashobora kumva bifite ishingiro gutabara, gutotezwa, cyangwa kwisobanura nk'uwahohotewe. Irashobora kumva rwose ari byiza gukoresha imvugo nini y amarangamutima kugirango dusobanure ikintu cyunvikana nabi, kibi, cyangwa ubundi yucky no kwerekana urutoki ahantu hose ariko kuri twe ubwacu. Muri ibi bihe, kugirango tuvugane kumugaragaro, tugomba gukoresha cyane ubwenge bwamarangamutima kugirango tumenye ko rimwe na rimwe ibyumva ko ari byiza bishobora rwose kuba akamenyero ko kwisubiraho.

Ahari kwiyemeza guhita kugirango ufungure itumanaho nabantu bose ni nini cyane yintambwe yambere. Ariko niteguye gushimangira ko abantu bose mumuryango wa Wright Centre bashobora kwiyemeza kwemeza byibuze umuntu umwe bavugana muriki cyumweru afite amakuru bakeneye kugirango batsinde byibuze umurimo umwe. Kugereranya Louis Newman , igihe, impinduka muri degre imwe ihinduka icyerekezo gishya cyagenze.

Inama Zihuse

(yazanwe na Shannon Osborne)

Itumanaho ninzira ebyiri. Ntidushobora kugenzura uburyo umuntu atanga amakuru ariko turashobora kugenzura (kugeza aho imbarutso yacu yemerera no kwitoza guhangana nabo) uko tuyakira. Mugihe dutangiye gukira neza kumenya ko twatewe cyangwa ubundi buryo bwo kubyitwaramo kurakara, gucika intege, uburakari, cyangwa ubwoba mubiganiro, dushobora gufata amasegonda make ibanga ubwacu hanyuma tukandika amagambo amwe inyuma mumutwe kugirango tuzane Uwiteka igice cyumvikana cyubwonko bwacu busubira mubiganiro. Turashobora kandi gufata aya masegonda make y'ibanga kugirango twibaze ikibazo nka, "Nashaka nte kwigaragaza muri ibi bihe?" (uwahohotewe, umutabazi, abatoteza, cyangwa umuremyi, uhanganye, umutoza).

Urakoze,

Meaghan P. Ruddy, impamyabumenyi y'ikirenga.

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